These past few weeks have been full of various activities around the house and adventures away from home. Here are a few snapshots of what has been going on. Much to my surprise and delight, my amaryllis is blooming. This lovely flower was a gift from a friend. However, it was one which I could not set out to bloom the first year I had it, so it was placed in a cool, dark basement. Then we moved, and it had to winter another year being stored in a cool, dark place. Tip: this is not a recommended gardening technique.
As I was unpacking and organizing the house this past fall I decided to put it out by the front door in hopes that the location would encourage it to begin growing. Within a few weeks of placing it outside and watering it, I noticed green beginning to appear. Both bulbs put on a hardy set of leaves for a few months. After a time the leaves began to yellow and die away. I was a bit disappointed, but not surprised by the lack of flowers. With a lack of a place to store it, I left it outside though not a lot of watering was taking place. (Apparently I did something right without knowing it.)
One morning, I noticed green appearing once again! Regular watering began immediately. This time an additional shoot appeared after a few weeks – it was a flower stem!
Our front porch has now been graced with this beauty for the past week or so. It brings a smile to my face every time I see it.
This beauty (in the eye of the beholder) was on the neighbor’s curb. While it is not the perfect pallet for what I have planned, there were a few factors which made it perfect in my eye. Most importantly the fact that it was two houses away and free.
It is now a work in progress, hopefully to be completed by the end of this week as I already have plants to put in it.
With a warming of weather I realized it was getting close to being late for putting in a garden. I was not wanting the look of concrete blocks, however the benefits – mobility, long life, no having to cut and drill, outweighed the negatives – not exactly the look I was heading towards.
After seeing a friend’s beds built with these even my husband mentioned I should try it. Guess he was not bothered by the look. So I took the plunge and bought them one day. I knew that if I only took the first step, the rest would fall into place quickly. I already have the cardboard, from moving boxes, and experience of having done this before in Small Town.
The construction of this has progressed enough for plants to be added in today or tomorrow. I will share more on it later.
While picking up blocks for the larger raised bed, I decided to adjust a design detail on the new smaller side bed. The blocks along the fence had been more of the decorative type. The problem with this was two-fold – they were too short and they were more expensive. Why have nice looking blocks there when no one would see them? Not only are the concrete blocks taller, but I can also plant inside the previously open squares.
I also added a painted pot from one of the kids. The likelihood of a toad finding it to make a toad house is fairly small, but you never know.
Another aspect of gardening I have been researching is the addition of fruit plants and/or plants to create a living screen along our back fence. After asking opinions of other local gardeners, browsing online garden supply stores, and reading up on our state’s extension website I thought I had it narrowed down to my final choices.
A trip to a local nursery with Jack one day showed me that I was not happy with the final choices. Even more so, I did not want to pay a few hundred dollars for something I was not completely sold on. Back to the drawing board I went.
One thing was for sure, I wanted a fig tree. The other fruit trees are more prone to issues due to the humidity of our location. Figs, however, do better and will give us about two crops a year. I also hope to start new plants off this one using cuttings. The gift that keeps on giving, I hope.
On the saving money front, I chose a store where I do not regularly shop and worked on finding ways to save there. It took a lot more time than I thought, but I am getting the hang of it. Something I came to realize, though, was that my attitude was not in the right place while learning. Instead of being in a place of thanks giving for the time and resources to learn, I began to have an attitude of lack.
I began to feel as if I failed if I did not get this deal or that. To nip this lie in the bud, I stopped paying attention to the deals at this store for a couple weeks. When a big sale came up I was able to take advantage to save a lot of money by stocking up on some essentials for our home, not worring about the other deals I missed. When I had to thought of, “Maybe I should go check out the other store near us, they may have other inventory”, I gave myself a talking to and found a better use of my time to bless my family.
January tends to be the hard month school wise. After the holidays it is hard to get the motivation back to get work done. While January was unusual, it was March which really did us in. For whatever reason, we just could not find our groove again. April found us taking advantage of more out-of-home activities as we are getting to know particular local families who also are active in several of the groups we frequent. A few other groups have also appeared on our radar…we really are blessed with the opportunities, ones we were wishing for in Small Town but could not find. We are all appreciating the opportunities to make new friends. Now the challenge is to find a balance between “learning” and “socializing”. Good thing several of the groups fill both needs.
As for decluttering, there are still a few boxes of items to unpack from our move. While I am not in a rush to unpack them without knowing where the items will go, I have been going through other things to clear out items we no longer need, want, or which are in a condition to warrant being thrown away. I was able to pass along several bags of clothes to other families of boys, as well as contribute to the yard sale of a local youth group.
The common thread to these things is: routine. Having a routine for school makes it more likely to get started. Having a routine to plan weekly meals makes it more likely to not rush at dinner time. Having a routine for picking up the house makes it more likely I am not spending all my time picking up, but can actually focus on cleaning, fixing, or clearing out.
After trying a few different things I have found a few thing which have stuck. Using those as framework for the rest of the system we are slowly expanding. For me that currently looks something like this:
- Laundry – Monday=mine and my husbands, Tuesday=George, Wednesday=Jack, Thursday=household and random other pieces
- Meals – Sunday=spaghetti for lunch, leftovers for supper, Thursday=supper with small group, Friday=supper is pizza and movie, Saturday=lunch is meat, potatoes, and another vegetable with a nice dessert, supper is lighter such as sandwiches. Nothing fancy, but it is a good framework.
- A daily evening pickup of the house. Not perfect, but something is better than nothing. This was happening right before bed, but then everyone was worked up. I changed it to happen right after supper and before a family activity which involves some sort of treat/dessert. It worked much better last night.
- Bedtime routines have simplified and been written out. This was written down such that “Boy A” does X then Y, while “Boy B” does Y then X. Seems clarifying that they shouldn’t be in the bathroom at the same time was needed to help reduce the amount of rough housing and to decrease the time it took to brush teeth.
- The robo vaccum is run twice a week, at least – on Sunday while we are at church, and Wednesday during the day. Other times as needed, but at least I know the floor will be picked up and swept twice a week. Now for mopping…
There is a lot going on over here, a lot of new or different things. However, I am beginning to feel a better balance about things…all in time for summer break to be looming on the horizon, of course.
My overall goal for the garden this year is to work on getting big things established, to keep the longer distant time-wise goals in mind. With an idea of where I want to end up, each step of the way is in that direction, even if it seems like I am skipping here and there around the place.
How has the spring been finding you? What is one of your goals for the year and what have you done to work toward achieving it?